Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Do You Want to Play USA Online Casinos?

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Monday, March 29, 2010

Do You Want to Personalized Your Things?



Women are so particular with their own things and they don’t want that anybody can use their things. So they want it to be personalized. That is why Posy Lane was created. This is an online boutique that specialize unique and personalized gift items for women, kids and many more. It was founded and owned by Nathen and Kerrie Barton way back in 2007. It was located in downtown McKinney, Texas.

They offer personalized rubber stamps which come in 90 custom stamp designs. It is fully personalized with address information, family names, name and monogram or designed as book plates, birth or moving announcements.

They also created personalized platter, plates and placemats for adult and those with mature taste. They have wide selection of fonts you can choose from for personalization of your order.

Posy Lane Inc. created bath towel wrap made from soft polyester cloth and comes in nine colors and three sizes, for adult, teens and child that gives a perfect wrap around your body and won’t pull either. It is personalize with a name or monogram which is perfect for birthday, graduation and bridesmaid gift. They also come up with a personalized bag or duffle bag, which is perfect for students living in boarding houses.

Due to persistent demands Posy Lane also offers full service custom embroidery and monogramming for corporate customers or personal shoppers. They accept embroidery for shirts, towels, linens, tote bags, uniforms and anything that you wanted to be personalized. They have over 30 font options and over 30 thread colors available to choose from. Placing of order is available online just fill up the necessary information being ask and wait for a few days for the message that your order is complete and is ready for pickup.

So if you want your things to be personalized or you want to give a gift to anybody then Posy Lane is the perfect online store for you which offer superb satisfaction to their customers.


Palm Sunday


Palm Sunday is a Christian feast that always falls on the Sunday before Easter Sunday. The feast commemorates an event mentioned by all four Canonical Gospels Mark, Matthew, Luke and John. This is the triumphant entry of Jesus into Jerusalem in the days before his Passion. This also called Palm Sunday of the Lord’s Passion.
Most Christian devotees went to their respective churches and brought with them their different designs of palms tied into crosses and have it blessed by the Priest every after the mass celebration.
People are encourage to do fasting, reconciliation and penance as a way to commemorate the Passion and Death of Jesus in order to save the whole world.

Sunday, March 28, 2010

Earth Hour


Earth Hour is a global even organized by World Wide Fun for Nature also known as World wildlife Fund and is held last Saturday of March annually. They are asking households and businesses to turn off their non-essential lights and other electrical appliances for one hour to raise awareness towards the need to take action on climate change. Earth Hour 2010 took place on March 27, 2010 from 8:30 p.m. to 9;30 p.m.

As a way of concerned to mother earth I switched off the lights for an hour.


Thursday, March 25, 2010

Cheap Eyeglasses at Zenni Optical


Where do you go when you need to replace your eyeglasses? Of course you go to the nearest optical clinic in your place. But are you satisfied of the services and most important are the price affordable? Well, you don’t need to go out further because there is already an optical clinic that gives you the Lowest Price Progressive Glasses. It comes in a very high quality, assures durability, safe to use, gives comfort to the wearer and very affordable prices. They are available online so if you have internet access, then you can view and order the style that you want to buy. Zenni Optical is The # 1 online RX glasses store. You can have your fashionable eyeglasses for as low as $8 per pair. Yes that’s right and you can read Eric’s review of Zenni Optical and you will be amazed of his testimonies about the product. So what are you waiting for, get your new pair of fashionable eyeglasses in a very affordable price at Zenni Optical.

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Parenting Techniques

Most of the parents based their parenting style on how they brought up by their parents. And we expect our own children to react the way we did. But there are some techniques that may not effective to your own children, so it’s time to make a change. There are at least 10 strategies that can be more effective in child rearing.

1. Start with Behavior Analysis
Think of bad behavior as a mystery. Who's responsible? What did they do? When, where, and why did it happen? Jumping to the same disciplinary conclusions every time your child misbehaves is like arresting the butler any time there's a murder to be solved. Be a good parenting detective and help you catch the real cause, and make the punishment fit the crime.
2. Use a Behavior Chart
Think your child won't understand/comply with/care about a behavior chart? If you're thinking about a traditional chore-for-reward system, you may be right. But with a little creativity, you should be able to come up with a chart or similar motivational scheme that will give your child a reason to be more pleasing'.
3. Choose Your Battles
"Why does everything have to be such a fight?" That's something you may have asked your child a time or ten, but it's a question worth asking yourself, too: Why does everything have to be such a fight? Is every battle you choose worth picking? Keep in mind that keeping the peace is more important than keeping up appearances.
4. Count to 10
"One-two-three" may be magic for some kids, but children with special needs may require extra time to do all the strategizing and motor planning it takes to move peacefully from one past time to the next. Forcing the issue with a quick three-count will most likely end in crabbiness and bad behavior , try controlling yourself.
5. Keep a “Bag of Tricks”
Amuse. Bribe. Comfort. Distract. Having a constant, and constantly updated, supply of items and ideas to cover those ABCDs for your child can make the difference between a whiny, fussy, tantrum time and a fun, funny, contented one. Captivate the attentions of your little ones because children love to do things in a fun way.
6. Set Get-able Goals
It's not bad to be ambitious for your child, or to have high hopes. But if you're setting the bar higher on a regular basis than your child can possibly reach, you're creating a constant experience of failure, fear and frustration that can come to no good. Arrange successes for your child by keeping goals in a realistic way and then build on that success to whatever heights your child can attain. Don’t be angry with your child because he failed to what you expect to have.
7. Keep Track of Transitions
Transitions are tricky for children with special needs, and for their stressed-out parents, too. Better to think those dangerous changes of activity through beforehand than deal with the inevitable meltdown that occurs after a mismanaged one.
8. Say What You Mean
Take a good look at the way you talk to your child, and you may see that what you have here is a failure to communicate.
9. Scout Time-Out Spots
Time-out can be an effective tool for kids with special needs, but as with everything else, you'll need to be creative. Sending a child to his room when his room is where he wants to be is counter-productive and not so helpful when you're at the mall or the store or the park.
10. Keep Looking for a Better Way
No two kids are alike, no two families are alike, and no behavior plan works for everyone. Even when you do find something successful, chances are your children will grow out of it like a favorite pair of pants. Reading parenting books that deal specifically with special-needs behaviors that can bring you a constant supply of fresh ideas and strategies. Pick and choose to find your own top ways of dealing with your unique child.

Thursday, March 18, 2010

Ten Alternative Ways to Avoid Spanking Your Child

Was there a time that you spank your child because he is not behaving even if you have done your best to cool him down? Well, spanking isn’t necessarily something a parent consciously chooses. Most often it happens when grownups lose their control get worked up or feel desperate. All parents know how profoundly annoying it can be when their little one doesn’t listen to them.

Why do some parents end up spanking their kids? Maybe it’s because spanking works to make their child behave. But in fact spanking works if and only if you look at the short time. Studies showed that there are adverse effects of spanking a child. It was found out that the more often a child is spanked, the greater the risk of childhood aggression and other antisocial behaviors such as lying, cheating, and bullying. Children who are raised from spanking are less likely to learn from right from wrong and more likely to misbehave their parent’s back.


Below are some alternatives or suggestions to handle discipline dilemmas.


1. Be firm and be kind.
A child is more likely to hear what you're saying if you use a neutral tone.
2. Pause.
There's nothing wrong with saying, "I'm too angry to deal with this now. We'll talk about it later."
3. Teach your kids.
Instead of punishing a child for misbehaving, think in terms of teaching him to behave. "I don't like it when you leave your skateboard in the front hall. Next time, please put it in the mudroom. How can I help you remember?"
4. Be positive.
Instead of saying, "How many times do I need to ask you to brush your teeth?" Say, "Go brush your teeth and let me know when you've finished so I can tuck you in."
5. Give explanations, not threats.
By giving your child a brief explanation of why she needs to do as she's told, you give her a reason to behave.
6. Refuse to get angry.
Instead of focusing on your child's misbehavior and working yourself into a lather, think of each conflict as an opportunity to guide and direct your child.
7. Give incentives.
Inspire your child to cooperate with phrases like, "It's time to go. Why don't you go down the slide one more time and then let's hustle. I want to get home in time to make cookies."
8. Be flexible.
If your little one asks, "Can I just finish watching this show before we go?" be reasonable. If you have the time to spare, make room for your child's requests. This is a great way for kids to learn about the art of negotiation.
9. Drop out of power struggles.
Nothing is as frustrating or less productive as having a showdown with your little one. Invite your child to cooperate by saying something like, "I've got a problem. I want you to wear a clean shirt and you insist on wearing the same old one every day. How can we solve this problem?" Your child is more likely to cooperate if he comes up with the solution.
10. Be smart.
Parents will often deal with problems in a set manner, even if their approach isn't helping. If what you're doing isn't working, find a more effective way to handle the problem. Tip: It's much easier to change your approach than it is to change your child. Ask yourself, "What can I do differently that will inspire a better reaction from my child?"
TIP: Remember these three important rules about punishment:

  • Don't assign a punishment when you're angry
  • Don't use punishment as revenge.
  • A more severe punishment is not necessarily a better one

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Raising a Child with Character

Time, Limits and Caring are the basic components for childcare. These are the important factors in raising responsible children. Being strict means not showing your love to them but molding them in order to become responsible and independent individuals.
It's impossible to raise children well unless we spend time with them. And spending simple time together has wonderful results. For example, my research shows that children in families that eat dinner together at least a few times per week tend to be less depressed, have less permissive attitudes toward sex, are less likely to use drugs, and are more likely to work to their intellectual potential in school. Caring is equally important—taking an active interest in our children's lives, being willing to listen to what's on their minds and participate in their activities.
For most parents, the trickiest part of TLC is setting limits for our kids. We believe setting limits-saying "no" for example—will destroy the closeness we have with our children and take all the fun out of parenting. But it is only by setting limits that we can help kids develop character and avoid some of the dangers of adolescence, including eating disorders, risky sexual behavior and underachievement.

The Importance of Limits
Each of us needs limits, whether it’s an adults or children. Yet some parents believe that setting limits is inconsistent with our desire to have a relationship with our child that is based on mutual respect. Trust and mutual respect are a crucial part of the parent-child relationship. You can try to discuss situations in which you and your child disagree. Explain to her the reasons why you should not agree of what he/she wants to. So when a child tries to get your okay to do something they're not ready for by saying, "Don't you trust me?" I recommend responding, "No, and I wouldn't have trusted myself at your age either. Part of my job as a parent is to protect you from risky situations." This may result to make him/her angry with your but your firmness also sends them the message that you care enough about them to hold the line, risk their displeasure, and create conflict and friction. They know it would be easier for you to give in. They are testing you.

Raising a Child with Character

Time, Limits and Caring are the basic components for childcare. These are the important factors in raising responsible children. Being strict means not showing your love to them but molding them in order to become responsible and independent individuals.
It's impossible to raise children well unless we spend time with them. And spending simple time together has wonderful results. For example, my research shows that children in families that eat dinner together at least a few times per week tend to be less depressed, have less permissive attitudes toward sex, are less likely to use drugs, and are more likely to work to their intellectual potential in school. Caring is equally important—taking an active interest in our children's lives, being willing to listen to what's on their minds and participate in their activities.
For most parents, the trickiest part of TLC is setting limits for our kids. We believe setting limits-saying "no" for example—will destroy the closeness we have with our children and take all the fun out of parenting. But it is only by setting limits that we can help kids develop character and avoid some of the dangers of adolescence, including eating disorders, risky sexual behavior and underachievement.

The Importance of Limits
Each of us needs limits, whether it’s an adults or children. Yet some parents believe that setting limits is inconsistent with our desire to have a relationship with our child that is based on mutual respect. Trust and mutual respect are a crucial part of the parent-child relationship. You can try to discuss situations in which you and your child disagree. Explain to her the reasons why you should not agree of what he/she wants to. So when a child tries to get your okay to do something they're not ready for by saying, "Don't you trust me?" I recommend responding, "No, and I wouldn't have trusted myself at your age either. Part of my job as a parent is to protect you from risky situations." This may result to make him/her angry with your but your firmness also sends them the message that you care enough about them to hold the line, risk their displeasure, and create conflict and friction. They know it would be easier for you to give in. They are testing you.

Friday, March 12, 2010

Family

I bumped into a stranger as he passed by,
"Oh, excuse me Please" was my reply.
He said, "Please excuse me too;
Wasn't even watching for you."
We were very polite, this stranger and I.
We went on our way and we said good-bye.
But at home a different story is told,
How we treat our loved ones, young and old.
Later that day, cooking the evening meal,
My daughter stood beside me very still.
When I turned, I nearly knocked her down.
"Move out of the way," I said with a frown.
She walked away, her little heart was broken.
I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken.
While I lay awake, that evening, in bed,
God's still small voice came to me and said,
"While dealing with a stranger, common courtesy you use,
But the children you love, you seem to abuse.
Go look on the kitchen floor,
You'll find some flowers there by the door.
Those are the flowers she brought for you.
She picked them herself: pink, yellow and blue.
She stood quietly not to spoil the surprise,
and you never saw the tears in her eyes."
By this time, I felt very small,
and now my tears began to fall.
I quietly went and knelt by her bed;
"Wake up, little girl, wake up," I said.
"Are these the flowers you picked for me?"
She smiled, "I found 'em, out by the tree.
I picked 'em because they're pretty like you.
I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue."
I said, "Daughter, I'm sorry for the way I acted today;
I shouldn't have yelled at you that way."
She said, "Oh, Mom, that's okay. I love you anyway."
I said, "Daughter, I love you too,
and I do like the flowers, especially the blue."
Are you aware that:
If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family we left behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family - an unwise investment indeed.
So what is behind the story-poem?
Do you know what is the meaning of the word of family?
FAMILY = (F)ather (A)nd (M)other, (I) (L)ove (Y)ou!
FATHER AND MOTHER I LOVE YOU

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Household Chores for Children

Its summer time and kids are very excited to get rested spent time playing, watching their favorite television shows. Although they are at their young age, parents can still delegate household chores to their children. Children could and should be involved in keeping a home in an orderly and organized manner. Even the youngest child household duties when parents assign age-appropriate chores. Below are some of the suggested household chores for prescribed age.
1. Preschoolers – Children at the age of 3 or 4 can be assigned small chores around the house which are simple and easy. Instruct him/her to fix her toys after playing. Tell them to put their dirty clothes into the hamper. Put the used plates in the sink, though they are not ready to do the washes but they can do scraping their plates into the garbage after eating. They can also do feeding their pets. Actually it depends on the parent on how they can make their preschoolers follow those simple chores.
2. For 5-6 year old – For the 5-6 year old children, they can already do sorting or folding their own washed clothes. They can already wipe the bathroom sink or dust the windows and furniture. They can also perform for the washing of dishes with your consent. Children of all ages actually like to be independent. They like to help around the house with a little motivation and encouragement from adults, especially when praises and rewards are offered for a job well done.
3. For 7-9 year old – at this age the child can already do a bigger task like setting the table for meals and then clean after eating. Keeping up their rooms neat and tidy. They can already assign to wash their own clothes and dishes.
4. For teenager children – Children at this age may be a little irritated when it comes to doing chores because they are already busy for something like texting, playing games in the computer or having fun with their friends. But with proper motivation and reward system, they will tend to do the job assign to them such as cleaning the house, doing light laundry, cleaning the refrigerator or cooked simple dishes for meals.

Monday, March 1, 2010

Tips on How to Explain Child Punishment

As parent we should understand that children are born not really knowing the difference between good and bad and what is right and wrong. It goes on how parents teach them on what is acceptable and what is not. This can be done by one on one talking to your child and if you impose punishment then you have to explain why you have punished him. Spanking or yelling the child will not get the child understands what he should be done instead. Below are some simple steps to guide parents on how to explain their child about his punishment.

  1. Explain the punishment in simple terms especially for children under the age of 2. For example, if they are fighting with his older brother or other children. Tell him that you love him but what he is doing is wrong and it can hurt to others. Explain to your child in a soft and relax voice.
  2. Talk to a preschool age child with facts. Normally you have certain rules in the house that they should follow. Once they disobey, make an agreement that if they broke the rule there is a corresponding consequences of it. Tell him how much you love them but there is a need to punish them because of not following the said rule.
  3. Kindergarten and graders are group of children that needs to be aware of house rules. This is the age of children that needs reasons why they should be punish. Talk to him alone. Don’t embarrass him in front with other family members. Ask him why he disobeyed the rules. Give him time to explain his reasons behind and then remind him that he must take control of his actions or else he will be subject to punishment. Let him apologize to the person he hurt for.
  4. You should be direct to your teens. They are capable of listening and processing everything you say to them. At this age they are already aware of the rules and the possible consequences of their actions. Express to your teens that you are disciplining him so that he will be a respectful, obedient and productive person. Don’t forget to remind him how much you love him. Don’t assume that he knows it. He needs to hear it especially when he received punishment.

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